This website can be a bit daunting, can’t it? There is so much information, how do you find what you are looking for or where do you start? You need midlife crisis resources for a bunch of subtopics.
Well, start by registering at the forum. I send everyone who registers a long Newbie Instructions welcome message through the forum’s Private Message system. It’s also pasted in the thread I linked you to above.
Or maybe you just typed your question in Google and landed here for the first time. Well Welcome! Certainly go through this list, but I also recommend that you check out the Chapter Contents which lists all articles at the main site as well as the Blog Articles List which lists all articles at the blog—you just have to click Expand All to see more than the most recent posts.
This post is sort of like an FAQ list, but not exactly. I have created it based on common keyword searches—so for some of the headings I’ve listed different phrases that are similar or related, that way newcomers who may find this page based on their specific keywords and questions can find answers. Below the headings I have listed articles at either the main site or the blog where you can find those types of midlife crisis resources and occasionally I have listed some forum topics. The forum topics listed here are located at the archived topics board which is only accessible if you are registered at the forum, so if you want to read those threads, you will need to register and login–topics that are more recent are located on the community board which is open to everyone. Some of the articles are the first of a series for that entire topic, so when you get to the bottom, follow the next arrow to keep reading if it’s on the main site or the series menu if you are at the blog. I may have repeated a few links if an article fits under a few of the headings.

Questions

Surviving Midlife Crisis
Can My Marriage Survive a Midlife Crisis?
Is there Hope for Midlife Crisis Marriages?
How Do I Stop a Divorce?
Making it Through a Male Midlife Crisis with Your Marriage Intact
How to Cope With Midlife Crisis Husband
How to Deal With A Wife Having A Midlife Crisis
How to Help Your Wife Through Midlife Crisis

• • • Standing Resource Page
    • Misconceptions About Standing
    • Standing Actions Resource Page
    • Paving the Way & Mirror-Work
    • Paving the Way
    • The Releasers
      Detach (The first level Releaser)

Do Midlife Crisis Affairs Last?
Marriage During Midlife Crisis to Affair Partner

• • • Will the MLCer Marry the Alienator?

Midlife Crisis Stages
Midlife Crisis Phases
Characteristics of Midlife Crisis
How Long Is a Midlife Crisis?
Can a Midlife Crisis Only Last A Few Months?
Does Midlife Crisis End?
Midlife Crisis What to Expect
Does Midlife Crisis Get Worse

• • • Midlife Crisis Resource Page
    • Midlife Crisis Overview

Why do Midlife Crisis Spouses Want to Keep in Contact Even Though They’ve Left?

• When Your MLCer is the Pursuer and You are the Distancer

Clinging Boomerangs

• • • Clinging Boomerangs (One of the Contact Types)
    • The Clinging Boomerang Soap Opera
    • The Clinging Boomerang Soap Opera Part II

Forum Topic

• • • Clinging Boomerangs

Midlife Crisis and Leaving Home
Midlife Crisis and Running

• • • MLCers Run Even When the Alienator is Gone

I Love You But I’m not In-Love with You

• • • Bomb Drop
    • What is Love?

Midlife Crisis Personality Disorder
Midlife Crisis and Narcissism
Is a Midlife Crisis a Real Mental Illness?
Is the Response to Midlife Crisis a Mental Illness?
Mental Illness and Midlife Crisis
Midlife Crisis or Mental Illness?
Midlife Crisis Psychosis
Bipolar Disorder and Midlife Crisis
Midlife Crisis Brain

• • • Personality Disorder or Midlife Crisis?

Forum Topics (listed in chronological order of topic start date)

• • • Brain Imaging – What Would the MLCer’s Brain Show?
    • A Post About a Study on Unrequited Love in the Journal of Neurophysiology
    • Narcissists
    • Midlife Crisis and Mental Health
    • MLC and Personality Disorders
    • Feedback on MLC From an Expert
    • Why Don’t Therapists Recognize MLC?
    • How a Borderline Personality Disorder Love Relationship Evolves
    • Biochemistry, Neurotransmitters and Brain Research
    • Discussion topic for the Veterans and Especially those in Mental Health
    • MLC and the Medical Community

About and What to Do

Midlife Crisis Affair
Midlife Crisis and Infidelity
Dealing With Husband’s Midlife Crisis Affair

• • • Betrayed: Dealing with Infidelity
    • Affair Down
      (this is an article in the Betrayed series)
    • Infidelity Statistics

Midlife and Divorce

• • • Marriage/Divorce Is/Isn’t Just a Piece of Paper
    • Divorce Happens!

Midlife Crisis Depression
Depression and Midlife Crisis
Midlife Crisis Depression

• • • Depression Overview
    • Liminality
    • Liminality: Questions & Answers
    • The Releasers
      Detach (The first level Releaser)

Forum Topics (listed in chronological order of topic start date)

• • • Depression
    • Liminality and Depression During MLC Journey
    • Newbies: About Depression
    • Signs of Depression During MLC
    • Limbo & Awakening, Liminality, Withdrawal… Confusions
    • Difference Between MLC and Depression?

Midlife Anger
Midlife Crisis Monster

• • • Monster
    • Stop Fearing Monster!

Forum Topics

• • • MLC or just Passive Aggressive behaviour?

Midlife Crisis Husband Wants Cake

Cake-Eating

• • • Cake-Eating
    • Premature Returns

Forum Topics

• • • Cake-Eating – The Most Misunderstood Part Of Your Journey

Clinging Boomerangs

• • • Clinging Boomerangs (One of the Contact Types)
    • The Clinging Boomerang Soap Opera
    • The Clinging Boomerang Soap Opera Part II

Forum Topic

• • • Clinging Boomerangs

Midlife Crisis Stories

• • • MLC Forum: Community Board
      Every thread with a story book icon is someone’s MLC story.

Tools and Boundaries

No Contact

• • No Contact
  • No Contact: Clearing Up the Confusion
  • No Contact: More About Contact Limitations

Detachment

• • The Releasers
    Detach (The first level Releaser)
  • Alternate Attachment: How You Still Aren’t Detached
  • Detachment Versus Distancing