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What is Paving the Way?6 Comments

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  2. You mention that Chuck gave your more ways to pave the way (directly) after he moved out. I am curious as to what you mean by this? I have laid the foundation too with my MLC'er, and contact did become less frequent; however, the last few weeks he is making more of an attempt to reconnect and start to build trust again between us. He is still living on his own, and with the OW. So, I want to continue to pave the way but know he will not respond well to me forcing the situation on him at a time he is beginning to feel less pressure and demand from me, i.e. going dark, limiting contact. He will see this as a manipulative tool and will not feel safe to continue to reconnect with me. So, I don't feel it is beneficial for me to limit contact with him at this time (it is already on a limited basis, meeting weekly-talking/texting at least every other day) but wonder what it is I can do to help continue to facilitate reconnection and paving the way at the same time.
    Any insight would be helpful.
    Thanks!

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  5. You mention that Chuck gave your more ways to pave the way (directly) after he moved out. I am curious as to what you mean by this? I have laid the foundation too with my MLC'er, and contact did become less frequent; however, the last few weeks he is making more of an attempt to reconnect and start to build trust again between us.

  6. When I originally commented I appear to have clicked the -Notify me when new comments are added- checkbox and now
    every time a comment is added I receive four emails with the same comment.
    Is there an easy method you can remove me from that service?
    Thanks a lot!
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